Becoming a parent can be one of the most joy-filled experiences in one’s life.  It has been a long-standing tradition for friends, family and neighbors to all gather to celebrate this special experience with a baby shower.  In the last decade or so, a new trend called “gender-reveal parties” has emerged for expectant parents to have another opportunity to celebrate.  But when the celebration of a new life is suddenly visited by death, a new bundle of questions emerge.